Ogundipe oluwatoyin amos 19 costly mistakes that husbands can make in a marriage:
1. Lack of Communication: Not openly discussing feelings, concerns, or daily experiences.
2. Neglecting Emotional Needs: Failing to show empathy or understanding towards their spouse’s emotions.
DON’T BE SEXUALLY SELFISH
Your wife has sexual needs too. Don’t sex her, get your cum then sleep or leave her hanging. Satisfy her sexually. Lick her, touch her, kiss her, massage her, suck her nipples, explore her body, make her sweat, make her tremble, make her feel all the sexual sensations possible. She is faithful to you, no other man has the chance to do this so do it well.
Satisfy her and she will satisfy you. It is your role to make her wet and well fed sexually. A sexed-up wife is a happy wife and makes a happy home. Make love to her.
3.Taking Their Spouse for Granted: Not appreciating the efforts and presence of their partner. WORRYING MORE ABOUT WHAT YOUR MALE FRIENDS OR PARENTS THINK THAN PLEASING YOUR FAMILY
Don’t let your friends or parents run your marriage. Don’t make your friends negatively influence you by mocking you that you are being sat on by your wife or wrongly advice you to be tough on your wife just to prove you are man enough.
A true friend is a friend to your marriage. Your parents might mean well but might drive a wedge between you and your wife. You left your father and mother to be one with your wife. Defend your home
4. Infidelity: Engaging in physical or emotional affairs outside the marriage.
ADMIRING OTHER WOMEN MORE THAN YOUR WIFE
If you find other women better looking than your wife, work on your wife. Nourish her with compliments, buy her clothes you think she’d look good in, take her shopping, pamper her, love her up till she glows. Go to the gym with her. Jog with her.
5. Financial Irresponsibility: Mismanaging finances or keeping financial secrets.
When your wife and kids get concerned about you spending much time away from home, when you are told you are not doing what you are supposed to; change, improve. Don’t throw money and gifts at them to silence them. They want your time and presence, not lifeless things.
6. Lack of Support: Not providing emotional, practical, or moral support.
7. Ignoring Boundaries: Disregarding personal or relationship boundaries.
8. Poor Conflict Resolution: Handling disagreements poorly, whether through
aggression or withdrawal.
9. Neglecting Self-Care: Not taking care of
their own physical and mental health.
10. Inconsistent Parenting: Not being a consistent or involved parent.
DON’T LET HER BE THE PARENT ALONE
When she gets pregnant, don’t abandon her. Walk with her as she carries your child. After birth, be pro-active in teaching, mentoring and guiding your child/children. Stop the nonsense of when the child does wrong, the child is your wife’s; when the child does well, you are a proud father
11. Disrespecting Their Spouse: Through words, actions, or attitudes.
12. Failure to Prioritize the Relationship: Placing work, hobbies, or other people consistently above the marriage.
13. Not Sharing Responsibilities: Unequal distribution of household or parenting duties.
14. Poor Listening Skills: Not actively listening or paying attention to their spouse.
15. Unrealistic Expectations: Holding their spouse to unrealistic standards.
16. Lack of Intimacy: Neglecting physical and emotional intimacy.
17. Criticism Without Constructive Feedback: Being overly critical without offering constructive solutions.
18. Inflexibility: Not being willing to compromise or adapt.
19. Ignoring Personal Growth: Not working on personal development, which can impact the relationship.
Addressing and avoiding these mistakes can significantly improve marital satisfaction and stability.
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